Kundalini Awakening - Sexual Energy

Kundalini is the light, the fire energy that awakens your each of your seven chakras. This is a natural progression of a human's evolution to have their energy body awakened to this state of being. Kundalini is the alchemy of the light body, to stir open the power of each chakra. Some experience Kundalini rising which is the feeling of the energy coming up through the body, most people feel a strong vibration which makes the shake and other feel heat or both from their toes and up. When the energy rises and does it's alchemy it's suppose to go up and through each of the seven chakras; root chakra, sacral chakra, solar plexus chakra, heart chakra, throat chakra, third eye chakra, and crown chakra. The energy is very powerful and transmutes any trauma that is connected to each chakra. Kundalini is a healing energy of course, as it's connected to source, connection to the everything. Some have many of their chakras opened through the Kundalini Rising and not all, but to be fully awakened one must experience the energy go up and all the way through their crown. When one experiences this they have full connection and are like a light bulb to connected and awakened beings. In many ways they are very energetically vulnerable if they are not aware of the energy that may be around them. On the other side, there are people that experience Kundalini rising is a partial awakening of the seven chakras. Meaning not all of the chakras are opened up energetically. With this some experience all kind of things such as physical pain, disharmony with others, and also an emotional roller coaster just to name a few. The Kundalini rises from the feet and up to the root chakra and then the sacral chakra, ect. Many who experience this the energy stops at their sacral chakra for many reasons but most important reason is healing.  See my video on "Find Your Sacred Power Within" for more information on this.

Kundalini is a sexual energy. It's a life force energy that allows for all creation in the human species. The kundalini is pushed up through our breath and this is why so many do kundalini yoga. When this energy is awakened your sexual energy is awakened with it. The sexual energy runs through up and down your spine like an electrical current that runs through wires in a street light. The illumination of the mind, body and soul comes from your sexual energy combined with the breath. 

So many spiritual people are highly sexual and it's because they have surpassed that second sacral chakra which disperses that sexual energy up and through the other chakras. But many of us get stuck in that second chakra for oh so many reasons. Which allows for people to become disconnected from sex. They start to become less sexual and only associate that chakra being open when having sex. However, that chakra along with all the other chakra's should and are open at all times. Your mind does create and gives the power to the circumstance.

Sexual energy is very taboo in so many cultures, but sexual energy should not be restrained in your marriage, love life, art, and passions of creations. It should be brought forth into your life, like the tassels on a beautiful piece of fabric. It is the fabric of our lives. 

20 Honest Questions The Person You Marry Should Be Able To Answer

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I was inspired to write this blog because I saw a blog on http://elitedaily.com, Paul Hudson writes very candidly in regards to a men's point of view. However, I will write on behalf of both sexes from a spiritual point of view.

I am not married yet and never have been, but I am engaged to someone now and have been in several serious relationships that have almost become a marriage. To keep any relationship healthy, balanced and joyful is a task especially when you are extreamly close and live together. Yes, marriage does get a bad rap. However, like this guy Paul says, it's not marriage's fault it's the people who don't know how to communicate and manage the relationship. 

Just because you both decided to get married does not mean you both have the same ideas of what your idea of marriage means. 

So let me help you out and give you a list of 20 sizzling questions that you and your fiance' should be able to answer, candidly! This may avoid arguments, divorce, or an unfit marriage.

There are all kinds of marriages but here I speak to the marriage of the heart.  

1. Why do you want to marry me? 

This question sounds silly, but if this question can't be answered it's not a very good start. The answer should definitely include love and more qualities that come from the inside versus your appearance or social status, because the the non-inner qualities can diminish through the years.

2. What do you foresee in your future?

Some have no idea how to answer this question and others know exactly what they want out of life.  Even though this question can be answered as truthfully as possible you never know what curve balls life throws you. Therefore, it's good to see how you both react to the plans and the uncertainties of life.

3. How do you feel about divorce? 

This can be answered in black and white. However, there is a grey area, because those who swear they don't want to divorce also get divorced. Some feel that when they have children it's a definite noway to divorce and others say whatever is best for the long term situation. Whatever it is it's good to hear this perspective even though it might not be written in stone.

4. Do you want children and if so, how many? 

So many couples assume that they both want children and the same number of kids! Nope, this is definitely a discussion to be had. There should also be an understanding if there are any difficulties how you will deal with it. What will be your options? Most don't talk about this. 

5. What are your feelings about living away from friends and family?

It's a new generation where so many of us move around and do whatever it takes to have a comfortable living situation. There are some people that will never leave their friends and family or even place of work for that matter and other's are explorers who like to take risks and enjoy adventure. This is a biggie in a marriage. Which one are you?  I knew a married couple who would only see each other on the weekends. She refused to leave her beloved New York City and he moved to an apartment in Washington DC for a better job. If this works for you, then OK! Bottom line, talk about it.

6. What kind of parent do you want to be? 

This is a very forward question. Some of us just know we want to participate in the kids after school activities, be a soccer coach, teach the kids how to paint or dance. There are other's who just want to raise their child by supporting them financially and give them life lessons. There is a whole slew of parenting types and you both need to discover what type is your partner. Although, you don't really know until you are actually a parent, but again talking about it is a good way to lay the land with this one. You never know you may want a partner who's super involved because you had that growing up and well, your partner may not be up for that. This would be something to fight about everyday if that was the case.

7.  Is marriage sacred to you or you just see it as a social status? 

Some will never admit that it is a social status but those who dare to tell at least honest. To see a marriage sacred comes from within. It hits core, like a deep resonance of deep connection to other. It's that simple.

8.  What is your thought on our finances…  Are we going “Dutch” 50/50? Are we sharing a bank account? Do you want a prenuptial agreement?

This is a biggie. No one likes to talk about this, but it's a must. If you can't be clear about this before you get married, trust that it will come up during the marriage.  Sometimes a woman has a great career and when she becomes a Mother wants to take a break from it. Not all Husbands are okay with this. This can be a deal breaker if it's not all out in the open.

9. What sort of boundaries will you change for the sake of our marriage?

No one ever talks about this I feel. You both need to understand what makes each other not comfortable when the other crosses a "boundary'. There are so many different types of boundaries; communicating with the opposite sex "inappropriately", limits on alcohol drinking, going out latenight with friends, Shopping, Gambling, ect. You know what I am talking about here.

10. Will you put me and your children first in all circumstances?

This should be a vow in all marriages. Most good partners feel that this is a no brainer and other's have no clue. 

11. What do you consider the perfect marriage?

Everyone has a different ideal. It's good to know what your partner see's in his/her wall of dreams.

12. Can you continue to be intimate and physical with me?

This is a tricky question, if the person never had a long term relationship. However, everyone knows their true essence and how their fiance makes them feel. 

13. Do you like who I am and appreciate my culture?

This is a pretty important question to agree on. If you can't see the beauty in your partners qualities and up bringing then it will never be a happy union.

14. Will you support me pursuing my passions?

This should be answered with love and compassion. Who doesn't want to be supported right? 

15.  Can you promise to always heal our arguments before going to bed?

Ahhh so important! You should shake on this.

16. Do you like my Family and Friends?

Another tricky questions of which most tip-toe around. This should be answered with respect and understanding. Not everyone likes their future in-law or their partner's best-friend!

17. In what order do these things come in for you; Career, Money, Family, Fame, Friends, Hobbies, and Health?

This should be interesting! It's good if they are complimentary rather than exact match.

18. How important is sex to you and how often would you like to do it?

Ooooh.. you should be on the same wavelength on this one. If one or the other isn't being satisfied, it's an opening for an affair.

19. If I get sick will you be there for me? 

Not everyone can answer this with a YES. Really think about this one.

20. What are your expectations of marriage?

This should be a nice list. Anyone who says I have no expectations just means, I am not completely surrendered to this relationship so it doesn't matter.

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Good luck! Hopefully this will bring you together with clarity or split you up before you both invest your hearts into a marriage.

Love,

Val

Divorce and How it Affects a Child

People who come from divorced parents have a broken idea about marriage, but not just marriage, relationships in general.

Most people who come from divorced parents have a hard time being close to friends, family, and just about anyone with full surrender.  While others look at the divorce as a catalyst in their life and decide in their mind that a divorce is everything they don't want and will fight for a long lasting marriage and then there are some that think, "che sara, sara", what will be, will be in the marriage, no biggie.

Spiritually,  marriage is not just a vow of words, it can be a fusion of the souls. However, if the souls are not connected from the get-go they are indeed to divorce. There is an unspoken discussion between the souls to allow to bring forth the relationship to combine families for the sake of energetic karmic resolve.  If the couple are to have children, through blood or adopted they have soul contracted to give life, a home, a place for these beings to see something for themselves. Many marriages heading into a divorce can be resolved and saved through true understanding of oneself, other, and the whole situation. However, it is most likely people divorce because of betraying your spouse. This in itself can be a chronic issue in the marriage or it can be a fluke, but the betrayal in not the underlying issue. 

Therefore, we need to have a true evaluation and give the marriage a real chance to recover and rebalance itself as first two people who share the love for their child/children. The other thing is that we all need to understand that marriage is not easy. It's a job. And yes I will say it again, it's a job. Many say that a good marriage should be free flowing. Yes, it should be, but you'll only reap the benefits of the free flowing marriage when you've put in the work of a good foundation (which I will get to in another blog). 

In a normal divorce, one without crisis such as physical or mental abuse, chronic distrust, any physical danger to you or your children you should wait out the marriage. What do I mean by this? Let the children ease into the divorce. Give them an understanding of how life is going to be once you are divorced. Actually live out the life you will have being divorced while living in the same home all together. Even if it's Six months to a year, have your children feel the new life, instead of over explaining things to them. A child can and will never really understand a divorce. They will think, "it's my fault, it's their fault, it's God's fault", ect. Therefore, to force the child to understand divorce, no matter what age they are they are not understanding of it. Stay in your hearts and love your children's Father/Mother. This person was once your friend, your partner, your lover. Trust that this union was made to allow your souls to learn and grow from this situation, rather than become hard and angry with those around you. Finally, asking for grace for your children to be free of pain and feel loved and understood never hurts. 

Our society needs a lot of mending and it starts with the family.

Here is a video that inspired me to write this blog;

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John of God Experience and Still Processing

The first time I heard of John of God was three years ago and all I knew of him was that he was a very powerful *living healer from Brazil who can perform miracles.

Last winter I was asking for guidance from spirit guides to help me with my relationship with my daughter's father.  The way I did it I flipped through a book that I have that has most if not all archangels, ascended masters, divine beings listed one page at time. I closed my eyes and asked "who can I ask to heal and restore my relationship with my daughter's father?". I flipped the book and there was "John of God" aka  Joao de Deus a Brazilian Medium who passed in1550. This was not the same John of God, but it was.

In Brazil at the Casa

I didn't even read the description of the Saint, as soon as I saw his name I said to myself, "Wow, I never thought he would come through". So I immediately went online to see if John of God was coming to New York as I felt that it was a calling to go see him. I google, "John of God New York", click, click, click and I see that he was indeed coming to New York. The Omega Center in Rhinebeck, NY had listed that he was coming on September 30th, 2014 to October 2nd, 2014. When I saw this, I said to myself "WOW! It really was a calling". I immediately call the Omega Center to ask about purchasing a ticket as they did not have anywhere to purchase the tickets on the site. When I called they said to me, "We just posted this event today" and when she told me that, I knew for sure I was on the right track.

Abadiania, Brazil

John of God, João Teixeira de Faria comes from Abadiania, Brazil who lives at the "CASA"  and welcomed all those who want to receive the energy through his medium work as he connects to about 32 entities. He is based there for most of the year and occasionally he tours the world to bring the work to those who cannot travel to him. Thousands of people come to see him to receive healings and of all kinds. The healing doesn't have to be physical, it could also be those of mental also. It may involve mediumistic searches for past lives and even “psychic surgery”.  Some people go to him to simply receive blessings and experience divinity. 

John of God is very special and now I know first hand.

Fast forward October 1st, 2014, I was driving up for an hour and half with my partner and my two year old daughter to attend his second day being in NY. We arrived and we sat in the a large tent that holds about 2000 people. We sit and we wait for JOG. He comes out and immediately tears flow down my cheeks. It was a confirmation for me that he was indeed one of the divine ones. He then leaves after saying a prayer and welcoming us.

They ask us to sit in the Current Room to experience Conscious Energy that is focused on healing.

The first time you go to John of God is to receive blessings. JOG taps your hand swiftly as you walk by him, right before you sit in the current room. Just with that tap I felt a huge wave of love all around me and my feelings for the relationship. I cried, sobbed for gratitude of the love I felt and then it turned into feeling sorry for myself as I didn't feel this love for a long time.

Rhinebeck, NY (top of the trees)

The second time you go to see JOG is to receive the psychic surgery. This is particularly for those who want physical healing or mental healing. This time they ask for us to sit in the current room and sit there quietly with eyes closed. When I did this right before JOG came into the room and spoke I saw an image of Jesus Christ in my third eye and when I told the person next to me, he said he saw the same thing. There was a nice confirmation that Jesus was coming through for me .. and him.

That night we went to bed early as the entities make you very tired and that night the entities gave me insight on my relationship of which I would never think on my own. And that insight happened to be true. The next day more of this insight was turning up as proof in emails, and while I was in the midst of having a conversation about the proof I hear a loud ringing in my ear. I knew it was my guides, entities reaching out to me. I close my eyes and there was a outline of a man in white in my third eye. I felt protection all around me and I knew whatever I was doing or saying was truth. I was in a state of bliss and gratitude while this was happening.

For seven nights you are to feel the work of the entities, some comes through as physical proof and others comes through as realizations, revelations.The seventh night you say a prayer to your entities for the blessings and to continue to finish the work. You are to dress in all white and drink your John of God water and so we did. That night I had all sorts of dreams that gave me peace in my heart.

It's all miraculous, I tell you. I never thought it could happen as my own personal miracle did. My prayer was answered.

And the process is still going. On the 40th day is when the entities leave me. Everyday is a new experience.

I feel truly protected and loved.

OPRAH'S INTERVIEW WITH JOHN OF GOD

Mantra for Protection, Prosperity with Money, Relationships and Creativity

This is an amazing and very powerful mantra by Yogiraj Gurunath Siddhanath. He is an ancient Master who has a sanga of Hamsa's. I was initiated by him in February 2011, which was right after my kundalini awakening, holy spirit running through me and it was my spiritual awakening. I used this mantra many times since I was feeling very unbalanced due to the fire of the energy running through me was too intense. I would burn out chakras at times. However, this mantra would calm the energy quickly. 

I also use this mantra when I am confused or in need of calming of anxiety. 



You can also play this, as it centers you to your heart and you will suddenly feel love all around you. This video I created is very healing.



Namaste.

Why are so many people changing their lives drastically?

I have received this download a long time ago, but have not been complete till I started to write about it now.

We are in a time that truth can only be sustained. Governments, Financial Systems, Religion,  and this is including even in our micro worlds of relationships are all at a time of collapse and renaissance, a new beginning.

You will notice that many people are splitting up at this time or have stopped being friends. Also, people are being fired or quitting their jobs, just like that. There is a reason for this. This reason is because their relationship to the other person or the job is not on a vibrational level to what is happening spiritually to this planet, which is connected to the Universal law of one.

In the past people would stay together or not leave their job for the sake of family, society, religion, and finances. However, now people do not care about these "issues" anymore. We are in a time now that the unified consciousness does not sustain deception, lies, loveless interactions, greed, selfish acts. We are in a vibrationally higher field of consciousness of which it supports only truth and love. Many people are getting physically sick, such diseases that kill because their soul has decided to leave this high vibrational frequency and to restart in a new body which will be easier for them sustain.

There are some people that don't even notice what is happening in their mind, but energetically in their physical body or soul they are changing, in pain and in denial of all of it. Once they start to feel the new wave of frequency and allow for the change to happen, they can start to flow again in their lives. For a wise Master once said, "The truth shall set you free" -Jesus Christ.

Therefore, be grateful for the experience of the pain, which brought you the the change of the light and be grateful to be done with it. As it served you for the time that you were in it. Start to notice that it's not just happening in your micro world, the whole world is shifting, to find a new relationship to humanity.

BE IN LOVE. OF THAT WHICH YOU ARE.

How to Attract an Aries Man

Aries are Fire Signs which means they are attracted to vivacious people.

An Aries man wants a woman that will never bore him. He's attracted to women who keeps him on his toes, but is also very loving towards him with positive affirmations.

He's a thrill seeker, an adventurist, so if you can inspire him to take on a new challenge his lovin' will thrive for you.  Even if you can be his muse, he will appreciate you and love you for it.

He's the type that will do anything for you; drive a long distance to come see you, give you access to his personal things, and introduce you to his colleagues and friends. Their gifts are extraordinary, ones' that make you feel like a princess. Aries man when in love treats you like his Wife. He includes you as part of the family. As a matter of fact, you can tell when he is super in love with you when he introduces you to his family. 

His work is very important to him as it allows him to work on his hobbies, travel, and to be able to share with you. He loves to satisfy you. Aries men have a knack for marketing, so they can sell anything to anyone, especially themselves. They aren't so charming, because they tend to be very attractive so their magnetism is already on. He sometimes can be a bit secretive if he feels like you aren't on the same track as him. Once he does that it means he's losing interest. 

Aries guy is a lover of life. He takes the bull by the horns. He gives everything he does 200% and he likes a woman that can give at least 100% (wink). You need to keep up with him. Don't always agree with everything he says, but your sweetness should woo him back to him. They are very taken by women who are independent but have both feet on the ground, and are close to their family. He also likes to be close to their partners family. He wants their approval more than anything. He tends to move around often, but he loves to go "Home" to his family, that's where he hangs his heart.  

Aries man is an extremist. He can be dressed to the nines or dressed very homely, but that doesn't mean that you are allowed to dress homely. They like their women to be dressed always appropriately-- simple elegance is what they are looking for. They love women who have big eyes and have a classic beauty about them. The gravitate towards women with hair that is usually medium to long. He also chemically attracted to a woman's scent, if it's on that usually drives him crazy.

Aries men sexually tend to want to take control. They like for their partner to be submissive in the bed; If you can do this, they will always be turned on by you. Again, always wanting to please you. 

Aries men are the unforgettable types, because they don't connect deeply with just anyone, you'll never forget the connection.  It goes for them as well, they can't forget you if they fell in love with you. However, their goal is to always do better, even with partners. Therefore, they have a hard time committing, that is to get them to say "I do".

The best way to sexually turn on an Aries is to care for him; holding his face in your hand, caressing his hair, giving him loving Motherly love. Afterall, his Mother is number one in his book. 

If you are looking to hold on to Aries guy, just make sure you don't disapprove of him often (or ever if possible) as his temper will explode and you don't want him to go there. He tends to not look back.

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How to Attract a Pisces Man

Pisces is a Water Sign which means he is attracted to someone who is sensitive and free spirited.

Pisces man is the sign of spirituality. Pisces man tend to be very close to his family so much that he likes to live close to them or he’ll be roommates with them. He enjoys that bondship and immediate closeness.

The Pisces guy is very passionate. If he gets something in his head that he wants to do or accomplish he will do it and do it well. He never gives up unless it becomes humanly impossible.

When a Pisces is trying to court you, he is very smooth about it. He shows it by showing you how people react to him- to show you that he can charm anyone, but he chooses you. He has a certain something about him that the ladies are attracted to and he knows about this super power, but he never abuses it if he’s in love.

Pisces men have an affinity towards the water; boating, fishing, and swimming. After all, he’s a fish.Take him for a stroll on the beach and you will light his romantic side. He enjoys simple vacations that include the bare necessities; You and Him.

Pisces are very sensitive. He doesn’t like when you put him down or reject him so if you think that he is not putting enough effort into you it might be because he doesn’t want to be turned down. He is so sensitive that a person’s energy can sway him of wanting to hang out with them. If Pisces are very close to you and love your energy they can be somewhat psychic with you. It may creep you out at first, but ultimately that is a very good thing. It means that you have become close to your Pisces man and that’s rare for a Pisces.

Pisces are a lot of fun since they are so easy going. He’s the type of guy that will be standing at a bar and before you know it everyone is around him talking to him. He is fair and friendly and everyone wants to hear what he has to say.

Pisces are very mysterious even though they are so social. He never let’s you know what he’s thinking because one that happens that means he’s spilling his guts and that is a BIG step for him. He tends to
keep things superficial until he feels very comfortable with you. That’s when he’s a sweet mushy guy.

Pisces are very sensual in the bedroom and he prefers a sensual woman as well. His ideal woman is someone that is cute, not so much hot. He likes women who are super affectionate but also give him his mental
space. Pisces men like to take alone time since they tend to be creative and very sensitive to energy. That is how they recharge their batteries.

If you want to seduce him, be sweet and coy. Playing a bit of cat and mouse will drive him wild, but don’t play it too long, he will become frustrated an d disinterested.

Wear a fitted outfit that shows your curves but in a classy way, rather than sexy to catch his eye.

How to Attract a Scorpio Man

Scorpio's are Water Signs which means they are attracted to sensitive souls.

A Scorpio man wants a woman that will stand by him no matter what, through the good and bad. He's attracted to women who are passive aggressive. He likes sensitive, kind hearted women.

Pay attention to what he likes and dislikes. Never serve him something that he's made explicit to you that he doesn't like. It will be a turnoff to him, because he takes notes in his head what makes you happy or not and he's just looking for the same in return.

He likes to do things for you that have practical sense; give you a car ride home, connect you with people of your interest, make your life easier. They are not very good at giving gifts, because to them it's 'the little things' that count. So don't complain about his gifts because it doesn't register to him that he hasn't done enough.

He looks at the relationship in a big picture. He considers a woman for a long lasting relationship who will make a good partner, friend, wife, and mother. He wants a woman that will grow with him, as he is always trying to learn and grow.

He tends to get very wrapped up with his work, hobbies and projects; but that doesn't mean that he's forgotten you. His goal is to make you happy and proud of him. You will never have to worry about money with a Scorpio, because he will find a way to use his skills and talents to make money and lots of it.

Scorpio guy is a good talker. He loves to socialize and talk to people about his ideas and theories. However, once he gets bored, he is out of there. The same rule goes for when he's involved with a woman. Keep a mystery about you so it will make him want more. If you ask a Scorpio out on a date he finds your confidence sexy, but if you want him to stick around he prefers the chase.

He tends to have a lot of options since his charismatic personality can fetch any girl. Once a Scorpio man ends the relationship because you fell out of his heart, he doesn't look at you the same anymore.

Scorpio man is very sensitive and seeks out a woman that he feels a cosmic connection with. Once he found that cosmic connection he will never stray away.

The best way to sexually turn on a Scorpio is to show him love; how you look at him and what you say to him with loving affection makes him crazy about you.

Scorpio man is attracted to beautiful woman with delicate facial features and a womanly body. He has keen senses so if you smell good you've already caught his attention. He also is attracted to women with nice teeth, hair and nails. Afterall, he's looking for the mother of his children.

A great way to find out if your Scorpio man is in love with you is if he gets jealous. If he isn't jealous he is keeping his feelings and the relationship shallow with you.

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How to Attract a Saggitarius Man

Sagittarius are Fire Signs which means they are attracted to vivacious individuals.

Sagittarius is the type of person that likes to travel, but mostly with comfort. Therefore, a trip to a tropical island with a nice comfortable bed is right up his alley.

Sagittarius loves to impress his partner. Therefore, when he does something for you be sure to take notice of the things he does. Otherwise, he might not feel ok with doing it again.

Sagg guy is the type of guy that wears his heart on his sleeve. He may hide it at first, but he eventually explodes with passion and love. He tends to be very romantic, so encourage his passionate ways.

Sagittarians love to give gifts when they are into you. He's sentimental and thoughtful and it will show in his gifts. His gifts are usually things you may need or maybe something you may like to do.

Sagittarians are attracted to women who have an innocent side to them.
Perhaps, you are naive or you may have a child-like personality that makes you delicate. In a way, he wants to think as if he is your one and only love.

They tends to like simple foods, nothing that has a lot of ingredients. Therefore, if you can make them a meal that is delicious and not so messy he will be impressed.

Sagittarius man is the least likely to cheat on their girlfriend or wife since he is the type of guy that prefers to be in relationships because he is very picky with his choices. He doesn't carry guilt very well either. He wants a woman that is very devoted to him and your respected families.

Sagittarian men are very active, so if you can keep up with him he' going to love that since he's a bit of a flirt. But his flirting is harmless.

If you want to attract him, wear striking colors like fuschia or red. It will make his eyes pop. He tends to be very detailed as to what you are wearing and your style. He either likes it or not.

He's the type of guy that likes to be with you often or even daily. Let him ask you to come around because he wants to be the decision maker in the relationship.

If you want to seduce a Sagittarius man make him laugh or have fun with him. He will be addicted to be around you.

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How to Attract a Gemini Man

Gemini's are an Air Sign which are attracted to multifaceted people.

If you are multifaceted you are showing a Gemini man that you like to mix it up, just like he does. But don't be confused or indecisive
because Gemini's gravitate towards a woman who has control over her
life. Even though Gemini men seek adventure, they truly enjoy the
space of their home which is what keeps a Gemini grounded. However,
don't suffocate or overwhelm him, you will just turn him off. There is
a balance with Gemini of being best friends and lovers, but also being
able to have your individual time alone.

Gemini connect with you through their words and communication. Their
instincts are driven by their mind, rather than their heart or gut.
Gemini's need to understand who you are through talking and if he
finds what you say interesting and vice versa then he wants to spend
more time with you.

He needs someone that accompanies his lifestyle and interest. Gemini's
get bored easily, so he needs a woman that is dynamic and enjoys the
different interests and passions in his life. He doesn't really go for
'looks' he rather be with someone that can keep him on his toes.

Gemini men are very good with children and animals. Gemini men are
very child-like in their demeanor as they look innocent. This
child-like characteristic is how they see the world through their
eyes. They see good in people until they are proven wrong. Gemini
gravitate to people who are 'broken', that is why children and animals
are their refuge because they are pure. If you can have the same
outlook as the Gemini man does, he will think highly of you. However
he does appreciate your keen sense for pushing away negative people
from him and your family.

Everyone loves a Gemini man. He has a ton of friends and loves to help
everyone around him. Sometimes his time runs short for you because he
wears himself thin, but if you ask more time from him he will give it
you. If he's ready to be in a serious relationship he will appreciate
you asking for more time. They like women who are witty in their
flirting, rather than aggressive.

Gemini men are ready to marry when they feel that their life situation
is stable, which may include his career, home, finances. He is also
driven by the fact that he wants to build a family, because it's
important to him to have a home full of action.

A Gemini man hides his sex drive very well, but in the bedroom he's
full of passion and sensuous desires. It's important to him that you
can 'keep up with him'.

The Gemini man likes a woman who dresses classy, but with a flair of
trend and sass. He also prefers a woman who doesn't wear too much
makeup, but a little is OK.

To flirt or seduce a Gemini , show strong eye contact or be open and
honest about your words. He can sense your closeness. The more you
open up, the more he will be interested.

How to Attract a Leo Man

Leo's are a Fire Sign which are attracted to dynamic individuals.

Show that you are fun, energetic, and have a social life. But don't seem like you are a wild party girl, because Leo's like girls that are stable, cool, and calm. If you want to impress Leo wear a red or gold dress that makes you shine.

He needs someone that makes him look good, your looks, the way you dress, your sense of humor or even your social status all are taken into consideration by him.

Leo's tend to be attractive men because they like to be the center of attention.  Attract a Leo by complimenting him, ask for advice, and look up to him. Make him the star in your world. Leo is the sign of the theatre: why don't you invite him to the theatre or some grand events.

Whisper in his ear, 'You are the best'. The more you flatter him, the more he wants to be around you. Leo's are the Lion of the zodiac sign, which is the king of the jungle and that's exactly how he wants to feel.

Leo's like extravagant things. He might have a nice watch, car or home. He appreciates a woman who has the same taste as him.

A Leo man has a high sex drive, so show that you are passionate about being with him.

Leo's have a big heart and they are attracted to women who also have a big heart. They tend to be Mamma's boys so treat his Mother with love and care.

He can be jealous, but he doesn't like that you are jealous of him. You acting jealous just gets in his way of shinning. He doesn't like when you question his every move. Leo's tend to be free spirited so if
you give him his space he will want to be with you as much as possible.

Afterall, he's a cat and cat's run away when you try to pet them, but they come purring when you seem aloof.

How to Attract a Virgo Man

Virgo is an Earth Sign which means he is attracted to someone that is grounded and is supportive.


Virgo man is the sign of independence. He loves to build and do things on his own without the help of others. He is the type of guy that left his parents house early and rarely asks for help from his friends, he rather give the help.

He is very organized and analytical person at work and sometimes at home. However, if he feel s like his life isn’t organized overall he feels very off kilter and it shows in his physical appearance. To a
certain degree he is a perfectionist.

Virgo’s like to think things through, like; this fits in this type of logic. So if you can try to help him out by organizing his bills or  home he will think you’re amazing.

Virgo men have an affinity towards the water; boating, fishing, and swimming. They love vacations that involve being on the water or being close to water. Therefore if you could book a vacation like that he will never forget it.

The Virgo man is very rational to the point that he rather take a job that pays the bills and gives him stability then to take a risk with being an entrepreneur. If you could encourage his ideas and
inspirations he will feel that support and seek it through.

Virgos are very blunt. He will tell you how it is. If it’s time for a new haircut, he will tell you just that. You can’t be sensitive to Virgo’s candidness; you have to see it that he keeps it honest.

Virgo guy always pictures a fairytale girl that he will end up with. He isn’t much into looks, because personality is what charms Virgos. He becomes so passionate towards you when he feels comfortable around you. The easiest way to turn on a Virgo is act like you are family.

Virgo’s tend to be very polite and even kilter. Therefore, don’t curse or start screaming at a Virgo. He will tell you he’s going for a walk and don’t expect him to come back home in a rush. He prefers not to have the drama.

Virgo’s like women who are sexy in a conservative way, as they tend to get jealous. You don’t want to get a Virgo jealous as they get really angry and it will take time to cool him down.

If you want to seduce him, look at him in the eye with a deep calm
stare. He will feel a deep mysterious connection that will make him
want to explore for more.

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How to Attract a Capricorn Man

Capricorn Man is an Earth Sign who is attracted to someone that supports his Ideals.

Capricorn Man is the type of guy that has complicated thoughts in which he hopes to find someone that understands him. They are men that always feel misunderstood. He doesn't like to be criticized.

It's a turn on to him if you are successful and/or have a passion for something. He is also a very curious person and likes to explore, if you have that same interest he will feel a strong connection to you.

He likes a woman who is down to earth and practical. A nice way to flirt with a Capricorn is a light touch on his arm or leg.

A Capricorn guy likes to friend you first and then become romantically involved with you. After all, they are ultimately stimulated by your mind.

If you are social, loving and trustworthy, he will become yours for a life time. He likes to host parties and entertain his friends and family, so he wants a woman that enjoys this as well.

With his career choice, he needs your support and understanding as he tends to be a hard worker.

The Capricorn man takes his time to settle down until he feels that most of his curiosities have been fulfilled. You need to be patient with Capricorn, as he doesn't like to be pressured into life changing
decisions.

Capricorn guy is attracted to women who are classically feminine; Are good with children and keep a home feeling like home by cooking, decorating, keeping it tidy. He likes tradition and likes family
gatherings, and if you can appreciate both he feels very close to you.

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How to Attract an Aquarius Man

Aquarius is an Air Sign which means he is attracted to someone that
can share his dreams

Aquarius man is the sign of friendship. He makes friends easily and is
always looking for the approval of people. Therefore, if your friends
or family can embrace him he will love to be around them often and
you.

He is the type of guy that enjoys being part of a group such as clubs,
sports, community where he has friends that greet him and he is no
stranger. Try to be more involved with your community with him as he
will want to spend time with you all the time.

Helping friends and society is important to him. Don't ever nag him
that he does too much for others as it will disturb his natural way
and he will feel disconnected from you.

Aquarius man is a dreamer and because he loves to dream, he also likes
to try to make them come true. He gets busy and sometimes becomes a
loner, so when he does this give him his space. He snaps out of his
day dreaming moments and he wants to see you when he does, so be there
for him. He tends to have a reputation to cheat or have many women,
but actually he prefers to be in a relationship. However not just a
regular relationship, but one that keeps him on his toes and easy
going as well.

Aquarians are known not to be emotionally open. If he tells you he
loves you it's a big deal for him, because it took him a lot of guts
to say it.

Aquarius guy is very passionate when he is in love, but that's if he
trust you. Trust is what turns on an Aquarius guy. If he trusts you,
consider him yours.

He's a very curious individual, that's always reading and exploring,
if you want to tickle his fancy take him to a museum, concert, or
gallery. If you want to impress him, show that you too have dreams and
very similar dreams to his.

If you want to seduce him, take his hand and place it on your body.
This is showing your way to connect without words and Aquarians like
this because they are always over thinking things.

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